A child will not respect you unless you have a healthy, affectionate, trusting relationship.
Healthy attachment = respect & love.
*Blind obedience can sometimes come from fear but that's a whole different topic I'm not attacking here.*
Does your child regularly ignore/disrespect you? Then I'm willing to bet forming a healthy loving relationship with them is not #1 on your priority list. How much one-on-one time do you spend with your child just having fun each day? If the answer is less than 5-10 mins I'm sensing a problem here...
So let me reiterate this in case you missed it the first time:
HEALTHY ATTACHMENT = RESPECT & LOVE
That's it. Simple, yes, but the most important thing you can do for your child.
The end. Now go play with your kid already!
1 comment:
LOVE. Love this. LOVE.
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